All my experiences have their value and their meaning. Below, I explain how each one works and how it is structured according to my personal journey within Tantra. If you do not yet have any knowledge of Tantra, I recommend reading my articles, where I consistently speak about Tantra and sexuality in a clear, simple, and accessible way for everyone.
A sacred journey into body wisdom, sensual liberation, pleasure and deep emotional healing.
Authentic Tantra is a powerful, heart-centered path rooted in ancient traditions and modern somatic science. Through conscious touch, breath, touch, energy awareness, and spiritual presence, it invites you into a full-body awakening potential —opening doors to healing, expanded pleasure, and profound reconnection with your true self.
Sensual touch is not just about arousal—it’s a sacred language of presence. In Authentic Tantra, touch becomes a tool for awakening dormant sensations, nourishing your nervous system, and building trust with your body. Each stroke, breath, and intention is designed to melt numbness, awaken energy pathways, and increase your body’s capacity to feel safely and deeply.
Release emotional and physical blockages stored in the tissues
Activate erogenous zones and awaken the body’s full pleasure map
Reconnect with your senses and natural erotic rhythm
Authentic Tantra approaches male sexual dysfunction holistically, seeing it as a signal of imbalance rather than a failure. It works with the body, emotions, nervous system, and energy together.
Core focus: Presence, breath, relaxation, and nervous system regulation rather than performance.
Key practices: Conscious breathing, pelvic floor awareness, mindful body sensing, and non-goal-oriented touch.
Main benefits: Improved erection quality, better ejaculatory control, increased libido, reduced anxiety, and deeper pleasure.
Emotional healing: Releases shame, fear, and past conditioning through awareness and self-acceptance.
Relational aspect: Synchronized breathing, and slow touch strengthen intimacy and safety with a partner.
Guiding principle: Pleasure grows from safety, presence, and connection—not effort or pressure.
In Tantra, sexual vitality is reclaimed by teaching the body that intimacy is safe, embodied, and deeply pleasurable.
Pleasure is your birthright. Most of us are conditioned into limited forms of pleasure—goal-oriented, genital-focused, or shame-ridden. Tantra opens the door to new realms:
Full-body orgasms and energetic waves of bliss
Dry orgasms (non-ejaculatory orgasms) for men, allowing prolonged ecstasy
Prolonged states of arousal and deepened sensual intimacy
Authentic Tantra goes far beyond sexuality—it supports emotional regulation, spiritual growth, and mental health:
Reduce anxiety and calm the overactive mind through breath and grounding
Lift the weight of depression by reconnecting to joy, sensuality, and embodiment
Address hormonal imbalances and energetic depletion that impact libido
Reignite passion and desire with practices that honor your pace and truth
Every Authentic Tantra session is a ritual—sacred, intentional, and tailored to your unique needs. This isn’t about fixing you. It’s about remembering your wholeness.
You will:
Be seen, held, and supported in a space free of judgment
Discover your body’s full erotic intelligence
Learn how to move sexual energy for vitality, healing, and joy
Feel empowered to reclaim your sensual sovereignty
In a world that often disconnects men from their emotions, bodies, and deeper sensuality, Tantra massage offers a profound path back to wholeness. This ancient practice is more than just physical pleasure — it’s a gateway to healing, self-discovery, and spiritual awakening.

Deep Relaxation: Releases physical and mental tension, calming the nervous system.

Healing Grief: Creates a safe space to process and release deep-seated sorrow.

Overcoming Self-Sabotage: Brings awareness to unconscious patterns that block personal growth.

Anxiety Reduction: Regulates the nervous system through breath and conscious touch.

Depression Support: Awakens life force energy, fostering emotional upliftment.

Body Acceptance: Invites loving presence to every part of the body, promoting self-love.

Self-Image Healing: Softens judgment and cultivates appreciation for one's unique form.

Increased Sensitivity: Heightens body awareness and sensation through mindful touch.

Sexual Healing: Supports the release of shame, guilt, or past sexual wounds.

Multi-Orgasmic Mastery: Teaches techniques to experience multiple non-ejaculatory orgasms.

Full-Body Orgasm: Expands pleasure throughout the entire body, not just the genitals.

Energetic Balance: Aligns and harmonizes the body’s energy centers (chakras).

Circulation & Vitality: Improves blood flow and revitalizes sexual energy.

Stress Reduction: Melts away mental tension through presence and surrender.

Self-Discovery: Encourages exploration of hidden desires and personal boundaries.

Spiritual Awakening: Opens the doorway to transcendent states of consciousness.

Better Sleep: Induces deep, restorative sleep by calming the mind and body.

Presence & Mindfulness: Trains awareness through breathwork and sensation.

Healing the Inner Child: Supports emotional healing from childhood wounds.

Trust & Surrender: Cultivates the ability to relax and receive without performance pressure.

Connection to the Divine Feminine: Helps men honor and understand feminine energy.

Release of Guilt & Shame: Supports the unlearning of societal sexual conditioning.

Polarity Activation: Balances masculine and feminine aspects within the self.

Life Force Mastery: Empowers men to harness and channel their sexual energy for greater purpose.
This consultation is a supportive space for those feeling lost, disconnected, or at a turning point in life or sexuality. Through conscious dialogue, deep presence, and intuitive guidance, you gain clarity about what is happening emotionally, physically, and energetically.
Rather than fixing, the session brings awareness, self-responsibility, and reconnection to your inner truth—helping you understand your blocks, realign with your body and desire, and move forward with greater clarity, presence, and confidence.
Consultation Session (Online)— Information & Prices
What This Session Is
This is a private, one-on-one consultation designed to offer clarity, guidance, and grounded insight into your life path, relationships, emotions, and sexuality.
It is an ideal starting point for beginners and for anyone seeking direction without pressure or commitment to a longer journey.
Sessions are held in a safety-centered, inclusive, and non-judgmental space, open to singles, couples, women, and men.
Session Format
Online (video call)
Private and Individual Session Only
Language: English
Suitable for beginners
The Two Dimensions of Tantra: Massages or Rituals
Authentic Tantra Massage by May Gonzalez, the most popular and Full body Massage offers two distinct intentions: one tailored for addressing sexual dysfunctions, and the other designed for individuals seeking to fully embrace and explore all aspects of the Authentic Tantra Massage experience.
This pathway supports individuals facing challenges such as erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation. By integrating tantric practices like mindful touch, breathwork, voice activation, energy awareness, kegel exercises, and other elements (see price list), the session helps restore balance, enhance body awareness, and cultivate deeper confidence in sexual energy.
For those seeking a more comprehensive exploration, this pathway encompasses all aspects of Authentic Tantra Massage. Discover your body’s full potential with experiences such as full-body orgasm, dry orgasm, and much more.
Authentic Tantra Massage is not only a physical experience—it also works on emotional, mental, and energetic levels. These sessions can:
Reduce anxiety and stress by calming the nervous system and guiding you into deep relaxation.
Cleanse energetic blockages that may be stored in the body, allowing for greater flow of vitality and creativity.
Support emotional healing by creating a safe, non-judgmental space for release.
Enhance overall wellbeing through the integration of body, mind, and spirit.
Session Options: Authentic Tantra Massage experiences are available in 100-minute or 120-minute sessions—choose the duration that feels right for you.
In this experience, I offer the opportunity to explore the full potential of the P-Spot, also known as the male P-Spot, providing a sensory expansion experience and access to maximum levels of pleasure that few have ever experienced. In men, stimulation is performed through a series of specific maneuvers, both on the external region and inside the anus, in direct contact with the prostate.
It is common for men to feel some apprehension regarding this type of stimulation due to taboos associated with the anal region, including concerns about their sexual orientation. However, our experience shows that this practice does not interfere with issues of gender or preferences. Instead, it significantly enhances pleasure and allows access to elevated states of perception and consciousness.
If you’ve never experienced P-spot stimulation, this is your invitation to explore a new dimension of pleasure, healing, and self-discovery. Open the door to a deeper connection with your body, your emotions, and your sensual energy.
The Two Dimensions of Tantra: Massages or Rituals
Naked Souls Ritual is a sacred practice of raw vulnerability, presence, and connection. This transformative ritual strips away external layers—both physical and emotional—to reveal the truth of who you are. Through intentional movements, sacred touch, and open-hearted presence, the ritual allows you to embrace your deepest desires, honor your authentic self, and experience profound intimacy with yourself or a partner. It is a journey of surrender, trust, and the celebration of your unguarded, soulful essence.
If you are looking for a session full of cuddles, attention, if you feel alone, needy, and want to replenish your energy and happiness, this session is for you.
The Body-to-Body Massage is a sensual tantric ritual that uses skin-to-skin contact, conscious breathing, and energetic presence to awaken body awareness, deepen relaxation, and expand vital life energy.
This experience creates a safe and nurturing space where the nervous system can relax, allowing the body to open to natural sensations, pleasure, and emotional release.
1. Creating a Safe Space
The session begins with a carefully prepared environment where presence, consent, and clear communication establish trust and relaxation.
2. Breath and Energy Connection
Conscious breathing techniques are used to align body, mind, and energy, helping release tension and increase body awareness.
3. Body-to-Body Contact
The massage involves fluid and continuous movements with skin-to-skin contact, allowing warmth and energy to flow naturally between bodies, stimulating deep relaxation and sensitivity.
4. Integrated Tantric Practices
The session may include practices such as:
5. Integration and Relaxation
The session ends with a period of deep rest, allowing the body to integrate the sensations, emotional releases, and energetic shifts experienced during the ritual.
The intention of the experience goes beyond physical pleasure and supports:
Before the session, we are gonna talk about how all the Authentic Tantra Massage works, creating an environment of security and confidentiality to share your specific needs and searches for the objective development of the work. This decision is linked to what the interacting brings to the session, whether the search for more bodily pleasure, sexual dysfunction, dissociation from the body, dissatisfaction, greater awareness and others. That conversation has the possibility of directing the massage and then passing on some breathing, connecting, moving and attention-directing techniques that will be fundamental to the process.
In Authentic Tantra Massage, breathwork, also known as pranayama, is a fundamental practice that supports the awakening, circulation, and integration of sexual and life-force energy—known as prana. Far beyond simple breathing, pranayama in tantra is a conscious, intentional tool that bridges the physical, emotional, and energetic bodies. It deepens presence, releases blockages, and enhances both healing and pleasure.
Breathwork plays a central role by helping the receiver stay connected to their body, expand their awareness, and process any sensations or emotions that may arise during the massage. Through the breath, the receiver learns to relax deeply, move energy beyond the genitals, and channel it throughout the entire body—into the heart, the belly, the throat, or even the crown.
Voice activation in Tantra massage refers to the practice of using sound and vocal expression to enhance the flow of energy, release emotional blockages, and deepen the experience of connection during a massage. In Tantra, the voice is seen as a powerful tool to activate and balance the chakras, allowing energy to move freely throughout the body.
Kegel exercises, commonly associated with strengthening the pelvic floor muscles, are highly effective for helping men manage and prevent premature ejaculation. By strengthening the pubococcygeus (PC) muscles, which support the bladder, bowel, and sexual organs, men can gain better control over their ejaculatory response. During Sexual Activity: Practice contracting the pelvic muscles at the moment when you feel you’re close to ejaculation. This contraction can help delay orgasm, giving you more time and control. Mind-Body Connection: As your pelvic floor muscles become stronger, you’ll become more aware of your sexual energy and sensations, allowing you to better manage arousal and ejaculation.
In Authentic Tantra Massage, Sensorial Massage plays a foundational role in awakening the body’s energy and expanding sensual awareness. It involves slow, conscious, and intentional touch—often using the fingers—that stimulates the skin and nervous system, helping the receiver drop into presence, safety, and receptivity.
Authentic Tantra Massage is a unique method developed by me, May Gonzalez, blending ancient tantric techniques with sacred touch. This practice is designed to work on the body’s vital energy centers—the chakras—which are gently activated during the massage through light, intentional pressure on specific points. This stimulation helps to release blockages, awaken bodily awareness, promote deep relaxation, enhance libido, and restore energetic balance.
It focuses on massaging the penis and surrounding areas with the aim of promoting relaxation, sexual healing, and overall well-being. Lingam massage may also allow the recipient to experience multiple orgasms.
To close the Authentic Tantra Massage, a gentle and mindful head massage is offered. This final touch guides the energy that has been awakened throughout the body upward, harmonizing and balancing the flow within the higher chakras. The soothing strokes calm the nervous system, quiet the mind, and create a bridge between physical sensations and spiritual awareness.
This closing ritual allows you to integrate the experience, leaving you deeply relaxed, centered, and connected to your higher self.
At the end of the Authentic Tantra Massage, you are invited into a space of mindful relaxation. This quiet integration period allows your body to fully absorb the healing touch, your breath to settle into ease, and your energy to flow harmoniously.
In this stillness, the awakened sensations and emotions can gently expand through your whole being, creating balance, clarity, and inner peace. It is a sacred pause—an opportunity to rest in presence, reconnect with yourself, and carry the experience beyond the session.
A core element of the Naked Souls Session is Eye Gazing, a transformative practice of connection and presence. Through sustained, intentional eye contact, we create a profound energetic exchange, breaking through layers of self-consciousness and inviting a deeper understanding of ourselves and each other.
A powerful component of the Naked Souls Session is Breathing Synchronization, a practice that aligns our breath to harmonize energy, deepen connection, and foster a profound sense of unity. By consciously breathing together, we create a shared rhythm that grounds us in the present moment and allows for an expansive flow of energy between us.
Voice activation in Tantra massage refers to the practice of using sound and vocal expression to enhance the flow of energy, release emotional blockages, and deepen the experience of connection during a massage. In Tantra, the voice is seen as a powerful tool to activate and balance the chakras, allowing energy to move freely throughout the body.
It focuses on massaging the penis and surrounding areas with the aim of promoting relaxation, sexual healing, and overall well-being. Lingam massage may also allow the recipient to experience multiple orgasms.
At the end of the Authentic Tantra Massage, you are invited into a space of mindful relaxation. This quiet integration period allows your body to fully absorb the healing touch, your breath to settle into ease, and your energy to flow harmoniously.
In this stillness, the awakened sensations and emotions can gently expand through your whole being, creating balance, clarity, and inner peace. It is a sacred pause—an opportunity to rest in presence, reconnect with yourself, and carry the experience beyond the session.
Your safety and comfort are the top priorities in this session. Before we begin, we will have a detailed conversation to establish clear boundaries, address any concerns, and ensure a mutual understanding of the session’s structure. This agreement creates a foundation of trust and ensures that both of us feel respected and supported throughout the experience.
What Boundaries Look Like:
The session is grounded in mindfulness and intentionality. Every moment is approached with care, non-judgment, and full presence to create a space of mutual respect and deep connection.
How Conscious Presence Is Fostered:
This session is co-created, meaning we both share responsibility for maintaining a safe and sacred space. I am here to guide and hold space, while you are empowered to voice your needs, set limits, and embrace the journey at your own pace.
The Safety, Boundaries, and Conscious Presence Session is more than a therapeutic practice—it is an invitation to experience healing, connection, and empowerment in a sacred container of respect and trust.
At May Gonzalez’s practice, sacred sexuality work is grounded in respect, healing, and professional boundaries. Any form of sexual intention, solicitation, or disrespectful communication is not acceptable.
If you send messages, calls, or requests with sexual intent, your appointment will be immediately canceled.
Your phone number and contact details will be permanently blocked.
You will not be allowed to book future sessions.
This policy is in place to ensure a safe, respectful, and sacred environment for both clients and practitioner.